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The Time Change Is Coming — A Gentle Opportunity to Reflect on Sleep


Time change

This weekend, we’ll be turning the clocks back one hour in Spain as we move from summer to winter time. That familiar “fall back” that seems harmless but can ripple through our days and nights in surprisingly powerful ways.


You might think, “It’s just one hour, how much harm can it do?” But for families with little ones, that one hour can feel monumental. A baby who wakes at 6:00 a.m. will now wake at 5:00 a.m., a toddler’s naps might suddenly shift off rhythm, and the delicate patterns we’ve built around bedtime can easily wobble.

It’s a small change that can have a big emotional and physical impact, especially if you’re already feeling the strain of sleep deprivation.


But here’s the truth: this isn’t a reason to panic. It’s a beautiful opportunity, a gentle invitation to pause, observe, and recalibrate your family’s sleep rhythms with more compassion and awareness.


In fact, the time change is the perfect reminder of what gentle sleep coaching is truly about: helping families adapt to change with empathy, clarity, and confidence.


In this post, we’ll explore:

  1. What the time change actually does to children’s sleep

  2. Why it can feel especially challenging for families

  3. How gentle sleep coaching helps families thrive during transitions

  4. Practical, loving strategies for easing your child through the clock change

  5. And a reflection on how this moment connects to the deeper journey of thriving as a family



What One Hour Really Means for Little Ones


While it seems like a small adjustment, changing the clocks affects your child’s internal rhythm, their circadian clock, which doesn’t reset as quickly as the wall clock does.


Children, especially babies and toddlers, are guided by strong internal cues. They don’t know that the clock says 7:00 a.m. now; their bodies still think it’s 6:00 a.m. So even though you “gain” an hour on paper, their internal systems are working from the same rhythm as before.


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That’s why you might suddenly find:

  • Earlier morning wakings — what was once 6:30 a.m. now becomes 5:30 a.m.

  • Nap resistance or timing confusion — the day might feel longer, and your child may be ready to rest earlier than usual.

  • Overtiredness at bedtime — because naps and wake windows are slightly off.

  • Night wakings — as your child’s internal sleep drive tries to adapt to the new external timing.


It’s completely normal. Their body needs a few days to re-synchronise with daylight patterns and new routines.



Why It Can Feel Especially Tough for Families


For many parents, the time change lands right when routines finally feel “settled.” So when the clocks shift, it can feel like everything unravels again; bedtime battles, crankiness, disrupted naps, and early mornings.


It can also touch deeper emotions: frustration, helplessness, guilt (“Did I do something wrong?”). But you haven’t. These are temporary ripples, not signs of failure.

And that’s why gentle sleep coaching exists, to support families through exactly these moments of transition.



What Gentle Sleep Coaching Really Is


When it comes to sleep, I don’t teach babies or toddlers how to sleep. I teach families how to understand and respond to their little one’s sleep needs.


Because every family is different:

  • Some want to continue co-sleeping, but wish it didn’t mean waking every hour.

  • Some would like to gently move their baby from the family bed to a cot, but don’t know how to do it smoothly.

  • Some already have their little one in a cot, but the frequent night wakings feel overwhelming and exhausting.


None of these situations are “wrong.” Babies wake for many reasons, some completely normal and developmentally appropriate, others linked to habits or sleep associations. What matters most is how parents are coping and whether the family as a whole feels connected, supported, and rested.


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As a Gentle Sleep Coach, my role is to help you:


✨ Understand what’s age-appropriate for your baby or toddler 

✨ Identify what might be causing those frequent wakings 

✨ Create gentle changes that help your little one sleep more independently, without losing the closeness you love


This isn’t about “fixing” your child, there’s nothing wrong with them. It’s about giving you the tools, confidence, and strategies to feel rested, connected, and supported, so your whole family can truly thrive.


Strategies for This Weekend’s Time Change


The “fall back” transition can actually become a wonderful practice in mindful, gentle adjustment. With the right approach, you can help your child (and yourself) adapt smoothly.


1. Understand the basic impact

When the clocks go back, kids will appear to go to bed earlier but their internal body clocks don’t instantly adjust. For the first few days, they will likely feel sleepy at an earlier time than usual, and may also wake earlier in the morning.


2. How to help them adjust

To ease the transition, you have two simple, effective options:


  • Option 1: Gradual shift – In the days leading up to the change, move your child’s bedtime earlier by around 15 minutes each night. This way, by the time the clocks change, their internal clock is already gently catching up.

  • Option 2: Adjust after the change – Simply put your child to bed at the new “earlier” clock time, which is actually the same as their old bedtime before the change. Their body will naturally adapt over the next few days.


Both options are gentle and valid,  the key is consistency and calm.


3. Keep the environment supportive


  • Darken the room well: With the sun rising earlier, blackout curtains can help prevent premature morning wakings.

  • Use light strategically: In the evenings, keep lights soft and warm to cue the body toward rest. In the mornings, let natural light in early to help reset their internal rhythm.

  • Stick to your soothing rituals: Bath, book, cuddle, song. These anchors of connection tell your child “it’s time to wind down,” even if the clock looks different.


4. Expect and accept a few bumpy days


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It may take 3–5 days for your child’s body to adapt. You might see some early wakings, shorter naps, or a bit of grumpiness, this is all temporary. Offer reassurance, hold your routines gently, and keep expectations realistic.

When you stay calm and consistent, your child feels safe, and their system naturally rebalances.



How Gentle Sleep Coaching Supports Families Through Transitions


The beauty of a gentle, responsive approach is that it’s designed for moments just like this.


It’s personalised

No two families have the same rhythm, space, or emotional needs. Gentle sleep coaching adapts to your child’s temperament and your family values whether you co-sleep, room-share, or have your baby in their own cot.


It’s developmental

We look at what’s age-appropriate and what your baby’s body and brain can realistically manage. That means we work with biology, not against it.


It’s emotional

Sleep challenges are rarely “just about sleep.” They touch attachment, stress, exhaustion, identity, and the emotional landscape of early parenting. Gentle support helps you feel less alone, less anxious, and more grounded in your intuition.


It’s sustainable

Because it respects the emotional connection between parent and child, it builds trust, not tears. That trust becomes the foundation for better sleep and calmer transitions in the future.



Realistic Expectations for This Week

Let’s keep it simple and kind.


Here’s what a realistic week might look like after the time change:


  • Day 1–2: Slight early wakings and crankiness; naps might be shorter.

  • Day 3–4: Body clocks start adjusting; bedtime begins to stabilise.

  • Day 5–7: Routine feels smoother again; you might even notice longer stretches of rest.


Remember,  you are not failing if things still feel off. Every child’s adjustment curve is different.


Gentle sleep isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress with compassion.




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A Moment for You


The time change can also be a reminder to check in with your rhythms.


Are you sleeping enough? Are you giving yourself permission to rest, even for ten quiet minutes in the day? Are there small ways you can protect your own evening wind-down; less scrolling, more soft light, more breath?


Your calm nervous system is one of your child’s strongest cues for safety and sleep readiness. So tending to your own rest isn’t selfish, it’s sacred parenting work.


A Final Reflection


Every seasonal change reminds us that life moves in cycles; light to dark, warm to cold, busy to slow. Parenting mirrors those cycles too: moments of harmony and moments of chaos, times of alignment and times of adjustment.


The time change this weekend is a small, annual symbol of something much larger, the art of adapting. And that’s exactly what gentle sleep coaching supports: your family’s ability to adapt with grace, connection, and confidence.

You don’t have to “fix” anything. You’re simply learning, step by step, how to tune into your child’s natural rhythm, meet them where they are, and build sleep patterns that support everyone’s wellbeing.


So as the clocks fall back this weekend, may you fall back into trust, trust in your instincts, your child’s resilience, and your family’s capacity to thrive through change.

You are doing beautifully.


Would You Like Some Extra Support?


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If you find that sleep continues to feel challenging or if you simply want a more peaceful rhythm for your family, I would love to help.


Through Gentle Sleep Coaching, we’ll explore your little one’s unique needs and create a personalised, compassionate plan that helps everyone sleep better without losing the closeness you treasure.


✨ You can book a free consultation call with me to talk about your family’s situation, ask questions, and discover how we can make gentle, sustainable changes together.




With love,


Anna, Founder of MyMamaDreams 

Doula | Lactation Consultant | Gentle Sleep Coach





 
 
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